He told her she is toxic. It felt soul crushing, but he was right. Maybe she needs to remember her toxic part. Being a good girl anyways did not brought her nowhere.
Om Namah Shivaya Beautiful People. Congratulations on your will to work on yourself and grow more Beautiful from the inside out! If You are reading this blog post, You are already aware of your vicious cycle. This is also known as your negative, destructive pattern. What is it? What popped in to your mind?
Being aware of your situation is already a solution. Let us be real. We all face different kinds of situations in our lives. In these situations, we do not feel relaxed. Many times, by our actions and deeds we cause ourselves pain, suffering, sadness, depression, etc. Often, we try to heal ourselves through escape mechanisms. These include addictions to work, sexual pleasures, or alcohol and drugs. Sometimes, we blame others for our miseries. We also engage in pleasing others with the reaction of thinking we can save them. Additionally, we only see flaws or only in others or only in ourselves. We believe we will be happy when the behavior of the other changes. We hold onto the idea that this other person is the cause of our misery and sadness. Sometimes, the other is guilty but we have zero boundaries. So, guys first step for saying goodbye to addicting destructive pattern, whatever it is.
- 1. STEP ONE- TAKE BACK YOUR POWER AND instantly VISUALIZE AND FEEL HOW YOUR LIFE FEELS LIKE, NEGATIVE PATTERN FREE
Taking back our power is important. By doing so, you take full responsibility for your actions. You also take responsibility for your thoughts, your emotions, and your life in general. This is a big step, because in this first step you do first and last step at the same time. II will explain to you why and how. Our destructive patterns are blocking us to live our lives to our highest potential. The problem is not to be stuck in a loop of nonsense. It is to find a feeling of what it looks like to vibrate higher. This is usually why people start to make changes. They do so after they become sick. Changes often occur after some dark and sad period in their lives. Sometimes they change when they have no other choice. You can be aware of that. You have all the knowledge and support. You do not have to hit rock bottom to start changing your life. You regain your power by understanding that you create your own reality. You are also the creator of experiences with addictive patterns. This understanding is the solution!
MARULA and ME AS A WARRIOR Marula, a powerful Feminine Figure who led the whole army, for sure a Queen of Limnos Island at that time, we bow to you Marula
- 2. STEP TWO-ACT IN A DIFFERENT WAY, BE PERSISTENT, NEVER GIVE UP, YOU CAN DO IT!
You are the creator of your own reality. You have full power and control to take charge of your life. The most important thing to do is. In your daily life, when you experience a challenge, and you are tested with your addicting pattern, it is difficult. You really want something to happen. You always try in the same way to make it happen, but it never works. Why is not working? Because you react and think in a same way your mind learned at the time when you were a child. It is a subconscious mentality, which has tremendous power over our lives. In the subconscious mind are our beliefs, patterns, and abilities. It holds our capacity to love, express, and manifest. Everything is in our subconscious mind. When we use our conscious mind, we create negative cycles. Sometimes, we live a robotic life based on survival and fear. We have little to experience. So, to make the point. You must act differently when you are challenged in your daily life. The word must, does not resonate with the higher truth. Hence, I do not recommend that you tell yourself, I must act differently. Tell yourself anything in the current moment, for example, I am reacting differently, and I am proud of myself.
I am reacting differently. The energy is not in the past. It is also not something that you must do. It has less pressure. Acting differently and being persistent is an enormously powerful tool. It is rewarding even if you fail. When you act differently, you start reprogramming your subconscious mind. You also communicate to your subconscious mind that old patterns will not be followed. We are not playing this game any longer. Thank yourself for being aware of the destructive pattern. You can also ask your guides and angels for help to aid you in this process. The last step is when you are challenged, bring all your power into your physical body system. Ask for guidance and help from your ancestors and act differently. Guys reward is unbelievable feeling of freedom, ease, acceptance, love, I can’t type these feelings with words. Its worth it. Do not judge yourself if you fail, know that is OK. And also know that every time you think you fail, actually you do not. You can never fail. You are just building experiences, more data, and inner strength. In the end, you will make it 4 GOOD. Trust
Glyfada Athens, Mexican Restaurant El Catrin Cocina Latina
Just a little joke at the end of the 2 point. Take the power of the destructive pattern, by laughing at it. You know guys this in a never-ending story like that movie. It seems serious but is not. When you overcome one pattern, then you acknowledge another one, and another one and another but. But all is a funny game. Is a game of knowing yourself more, loving yourself more, and experiencing yourself more profoundly. That is why you should remember it’s not the end of the world. This small pattern is just one of many. When you realize this, you take away its power. Then, the next time temptation comes, you can act differently and step closer to freedom. Supporting you guys, you are never alone in this. Never. Do not be afraid to ask for help, guidance, or assistance. If you need some extra love, push, or whatever, feel free to reach out. I am also here for you.
- 3. DO THE INNER CHILD WORK BY TEACHING YOUR SYSTEM HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF 4 GOOD. SHARE YOUR LOVE WITH OTHERS!
The most important thing in our life’s is accepting ourselves and loving ourselves. Guys, when you infuse love into your body, mind, and emotions, breaking addictive patterns becomes much easier. You also catch a glimpse of your spiritual being. You know when someone loves himself, can do no harm to other people. There are many wonderful techniques how to heal and give love to your inner child. So, if you will say well who is inner child, what is inner child? Inner child is far most important aspect of yourself. I didn’t want to deal with my inner child for a very long time. To tell you the truth, I thought it was bullshit. However, it is very powerful, you can experience time traveling,,, I mean. Ok focus Sita. When you recognize many dark shadows, like judgments, anger, and fear, notice them. Then, send love to your inner child. Find a way that works for you. For me, I visualize myself as a child. As an adult, I send unconditional love to Sita baby. She didn’t know what she was doing when she was chasing love and attention from other people. So… very important inner child healing.
Street Art in Athens getting to Monastiraki square, guided by Divine
- 4. PRACTICE GRATEFULNESS AND FORGIVENESS, IT ALWAYS WORKS!
Maybe you will think well, what the hell does gratefulness do with me trying to overcome the addicting pattern. Well gratefulness is, speaking from my personal experience the most effective tool to feel joy, happiness, love and bliss. It can change your energy field in an instant second. Sometimes we just cannot see the bigger picture. We do not understand the creator’s plan for us. We loop in a cycle. So, when this feeling comes, gratefulness is the key. Be grateful for the air. Be grateful for the water you drink. Be grateful for the shelter you have. Be grateful for the food you can eat. Be grateful for the awareness that you see the addicting pattern. Be grateful for that and look around yourself, and really say thank you to everything around you. Miraculous things will start to happen on that day. This is a magical tool number 4 for instant change of your energy. LOVE YOU GUYS!
Sita
October2020